Importance of Husband in the Light of Quran and Hadith

Importance of husband in the light of Quran and Hadith

The Prophet صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم asked one of the Companion's wives: "Have you got a husband?" She said: "Yes." He asked: "How do you treat him?" She replied: "I spare no pains in obeying him, except what I cannot do." The Prophet then said: "Make sure that you obey him, because he is your Paradise or Hellfire" (Tirmidhi)

The Prophet صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم said: "If a woman dies while her husband was pleased with her, she will enter Paradise." (Tirmidhi)

The Prophet صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم said: "If a woman prays her five prayers, fasts her month (Ramadan), guards her chastity, and obeys her husband (always) she will enter Jannah." (Bukhari)

The Prophet صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم was asked: "Which of women is best?" He said: “The one who makes (her husband) happy when he looks at her, obeys him when he tells her to do something, and does not disobey him with regard to herself or her wealth in a way that he dislikes.” (Nasaai)

The Prophet صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم said: "If I were to command anyone to prostrate to anything other than Allah, I would have commanded women to prostrate to their husbands. By the One in Whose hand is the soul of Muhammad, no woman will fulfil her duty towards her Lord unless she fulfils her duty towards her husband, and if he asks her for herself when she is sitting on a saddle, she should not refuse him." (Ibn Maajah)

The Prophet صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم said: "It is not right for any human being to prostrate to another; if it were right for one human being to prostrate to another, I would have commanded women to prostrate to their husbands because of the great rights that they have over them. By the One in Whose hand is my soul, if a man were covered from head to foot with weeping sores oozing pus, and his wife were to come to him and lick his sores (to clean them), this would not fulfil the rights he has over her." (Ahmad)

The Prophet صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم said: "If Allah has blessed any of you with a good wife, He has helped him with half his deen, so he should fear Allah with the other half." (Hakim)

The Prophet صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم said: “No woman annoys her husband but his wife among Al-Hoor Al-’Ayn says, ‘Do not annoy him! May Allah destroy you (Literally ‘Kill you’)! For he is just a temporary guest with you and soon he will leave you and join (come to) us‘.” (Ahmed, Tirmidhi, ibn Majah)

The Prophet صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم said: “There are three whose prayers will not be accepted and they will not ascend to heaven or even go beyond their heads: … a woman whose husband calls her at night and she refuses.” (Targhib wal-Tarhib)

The Prophet صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم said: “If a man calls his wife to his bed and she refuses, and he stays angry with her all night, the angels will curse her until morning.” (Bukhari, Muslim)

The Prophet صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم said: “Any woman who asked for a divorce for no reason, the fragrance of Paradise is forbidden to her.” (Tirmidhi, Abu Dawood, Ibn Maajah)

"Whether the husband wants to discipline his wife, or forgive her, or take another wife, or divorce her, this is all up to him to choose. Let the woman beware of incurring her husband’s wrath because this will lead to Allaah’s being angry with her." - Sh. Muhammad Al-Munajjid

"If a Man is married with a righteous wife, he will live a harmonious life even if he is poor" - Sh. Saleh Al-Fawzan

The blessings for a woman being a righteous wife and a man having the righteous wife is pleasure in this world and the next when we meet Allah...

When Imam Ahmed ibn Hanbal's wife passed away he said "Wallahi I lived with her for 40 years and we didn't argue once." He was asked how? He said "Whenever she got upset and tried to argue, I stayed quiet. And whenever I was upset and tried to argue, she stayed quiet."

The Best Charity is the One Given to a Resentful Relative

Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) said:
“The best charity is the one given to a resentful relative.”
[Bukhari]

When somebody insults you, it hurts your ego/pride. One of the techniques to overcome pride is to humble ourselves and give charity to the stubborn relatives ,for the sake of Allah.

Why Does Donkeys See The Demons And Cocks See The Angels?

Why Does Donkeys See The Demons And Cocks See The Angels?

Why does donkeys see the demons and cocks see the angels? Scientific miracle!

• (Here the miracle of our Prophet Muhammad, God''s blessings and peace is upon him).

A prophetic tradition, peace is upon him, which he says:
"If you have heard the voices of cocks ask Allah of His bounty, they saw an angel and if you have heard braying donkeys, you seek refuge with God from demon, they saw demon"

How we have heard this talk.. Did not stand on it? And we did not expect containing a scientifically discovery which amazing the world When discovered.

• The ability of the human visual system is limited and different from the visual capacity of the donkeys, which in turn differ in their capacity as the ability of the visual of cocks.
Thus, the ability of human vision is limited, not to see what is under the red rays and over the UV radiation. But the ability of cocks and donkeys are more than that.

• The question here is.. How can the donkey and the cock sees and the demons and angels ?

1. The donkey can view the red rays, and the devil, one of the
committees created from the fire so, from the infra-red of the opinion that donkey does not see angels, but see the jinn.

2. The cocks view through UV radiation, and the angels created from light, so from the UV rays, so the cocks can see angels.
• This explains why does the demons escape when we remembrance of Allah.

The reason is this: The angels came to the place of God is
mentioned.. Devils escaped.

• Why do the devils escape in the presence of the angels?
The answer: because the devils to be harmed by the light of the
angels. In other words: If UV rays met with infrared rays in one place, the red rays will disappears.

Who told Muhammad, God''s blessings and peace is upon him, of all this scientific information 1400 years ago

Importance Of Sha'baan In The Light Of Hadiths

Importance Of Sha'baan In The Light Of Hadiths

Sha'baan is the eighth month of the Islamic Calendar.

Literal meaning: Sha'baan means to spread and distribute. During this month blessings descend and the provisions and sustenance of man is distributed.

Sha'baan is the month that comes between Rajab and Ramadhaan. There are many virtuous days with which Allah (swt) has blessed his prophet Mohammed (saw). He has promised us great reward for each and every virtuous deed, even if it be as small as removing something from a path way that may trouble others.

Every day Allah (swt) through His love and mercy has allocated a specific time in which those who call unto Him are answered. He has set aside certain days in which mercy has no limits, to those who plead for it. From amongst the special times and days is the month of Sha'baan, in which each deed acted upon, is rewarded more generously by Allah (swt) than compared to any other day.

Why is Sha'baan important ?

In a Hadeeth Sayyidina Usama (r.d) reports that prophet Hazrat Mohammed (saw) said,
"There is a month between Rajab and Ramadan called Sha'baan, people are very ignorant towards this month, even though the reward of each deed is greater within it and the deeds are presented to Allah (swt)."
(Imam Baihaqi reports this hadeeth in his kitaab Shuab-ul-Imaan).

It has also been stated in the kitaab 'Daylami' that prophet Hazrat Mohammed(saw) proclaimed, "Sha'baan is my month." In another hadeeth Sayyedna Aa'isha(r.d.a) narrates that prophet Mohammed (saw) preferred to observe the fasts of Sha'baan thus uniting them with the fasts of Ramadan. From the above Ahaadeeth we learn the significance of Sha`ban and prophet Mohammed (saw)attachment to this blessed month.

Importance of Sha'baan in the light of Hadiths :

عَنْ عَائِشَةَ - رضى الله عنها - قَالَتْ كَانَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ - صلى الله عليه وسلم - يَصُومُ حَتَّى نَقُولَ لاَ يُفْطِرُ ، وَيُفْطِرُ حَتَّى نَقُولَ لاَ يَصُومُ . فَمَا رَأَيْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ - صلى الله عليه وسلم - اسْتَكْمَلَ صِيَامَ شَهْرٍ إِلاَّ رَمَضَانَ، وَمَا رَأَيْتُهُ أَكْثَرَ صِيَامًا مِنْهُ فِى شَعْبَانَ . - بخاري ح1833، مسلم ح1956، نسائي ح2311، ابوداؤد ح2079

Aishah radhiallahu anhaa narrates: The Blessed Prophet (saw) fasted for so long [so many days] we thought he would never break his fast. Then he would do iftar (for so many days) we thought he will never fast. I have never seen the Blessed Prophet (saw) fast for a whole month besides the month of Ramadan and keep more fasts [outside of Ramadan] than in the month of Shabaan.
(Reported in Bukhari, Muslim, Nisai, Abu Dawood)

عَنْ أُسَامَةُ بْنُ زَيْدٍ قَالَ قُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ لَمْ أَرَكَ تَصُومُ شَهْرًا مِنَ الشُّهُورِ مَا تَصُومُ مِنْ شَعْبَانَ. قَالَ ذَلِكَ شَهْرٌ يَغْفُلُ النَّاسُ عَنْهُ بَيْنَ رَجَبٍ وَرَمَضَانَ وَهُوَ شَهْرٌ تُرْفَعُ فِيهِ الأَعْمَالُ إِلَى رَبِّ الْعَالَمِينَ فَأُحِبُّ أَنْ يُرْفَعَ عَمَلِى وَأَنَا صَائِمٌ. - نسائي ح2317، مسند احمد ح20758

Usamah bin Zaid narrates that I said: Oh Blessed Prophet (saw)! I do not see you fasting any month more than the month of Shabaan. The Blessed Prophet (saw) replied:
People are ignorant of it, being between the months of Rajab and Ramadan. All deeds are raised towards Rabb ul Alameen in that month. Thus, I wish that my deeds are raised when I am fasting.
(Reported in Nisai, Musnad Ahmad)

عَنْ عَائِشَةَ أَنَّهَا قَالَتْ مَا رَأَيْتُ النَّبِىَّ -صلى الله عليه وسلم- فِى شَهْرٍ أَكْثَرَ صِيَامًا مِنْهُ فِى شَعْبَانَ كَانَ يَصُومُهُ إِلاَّ قَلِيلاً بَلْ كَانَ يَصُومُهُ كُلَّهُ. - ترمذي ح668، نسائي ح2149، ابوداؤد ح2079، مسند احمد ح23402

Aisha radhiallahu anhaa narrates that I never saw the Blessed Prophet (saw) fast in any month more than the month of Shabaan. He used to fast the whole month except for some days; in fact, he used to fast the whole month (of Shabaan).
(Reported in Nisai, Abu Dawood, Musnad Ahmad)

عن أبي هريرة أن عائشة حدثتهم أن النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم كان يصوم شعبان كله قالت قلت يا رسول الله أحب الشهور إليك أن تصومه شعبان؟ قال إن الله يكتب على كل نفس ميتة تلك السنة فأحب أن يأتي أجلي وأنا صائم - مسند ابويعلى ص311 ج8، الترغيب والترهيب ص72 ج2 وقال:وهوغريب واسناده حسن

Abu Huraira (ra) relates that Aisha radhiallahu anhaa narrated to them the hadith that the Blessed Prophet (saw) fasted the whole month of Shabaan. She said: I asked the Blessed Prophet (saw): Oh Blessed Prophet (saw), is Shabaan your most favorite month to fast? He replied: Allah (swt) assigns the year of death for each person (in the month of Shabaan), thus, I wish my death come when I am fasting.
(The chain of narration is ranked "Hasan" in al-Targheeb wal Tarheeb and is also related in Musnad Abu Yala)

And We Have Not Sent You, [O Muhammad], Except as a Mercy to the Worlds

And We have not sent you, [O Muhammad], except as a mercy to the worlds.

اور (اے محمد ﷺ) ہم نے تم کو تمام جہان کے لئے رحمت (بنا کر) بھیجا ہے

Surat Al-'Anbya' [21:107]

He Who Has Some Trouble Or Sorrow He Should Recite This Dua

 Who Has Some Trouble Or Sorrow He Should Recite This Dua

Narrated Abdullah bin Masood ؓ that Prophet ﷺ said, He who has some trouble or sorrow he should recite this dua, and ALLAH will remove his trouble or sorrow and convert it into happiness.

That dua is;

اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي عَبْدُكَ وَابْنُ عَبْدِكَ وَابْنُ أَمَتِكَ نَاصِيَتِي بِيَدِكَ مَاضٍ فِيَّ حُكْمُكَ عَدْلٌ فِيَّ قَضَاؤُكَ أَسْأَلُكَ بِكُلِّ اسْمٍ هُوَ لَكَ سَمَّيْتَ بِهِ نَفْسَكَ أَوْ عَلَّمْتَهُ أَحَدًا مِنْ خَلْقِكَ أَوْ أَنْزَلْتَهُ فِي كِتَابِكَ أَوْ اسْتَأْثَرْتَ بِهِ فِي عِلْمِ الْغَيْبِ عِنْدَكَ أَنْ تَجْعَلَ الْقُرْآنَ رَبِيعَ قَلْبِي وَنُورَ صَدْرِي وَجِلَاءَ حُزْنِي وَذَهَابَ هَمِّي إِلَّا أَذْهَبَ اللَّهُ هَمَّهُ وَحُزْنَهُ وَأَبْدَلَهُ مَكَانَهُ فَرَجًا،قَالَ فَقِيلَ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ أَلَا نَتَعَلَّمُهَا فَقَالَ بَلَى يَنْبَغِي لِمَنْ سَمِعَهَا أَنْ يَتَعَلَّمَهَا

Translation in English:

O ALLAH i am your slave, I am son of your slaves (Hazrat Adam & Hawwa ), O ALLAH i ask with the source of your every name which you have nominated for yourself, Or taught it to your creature, or mentioned in your book (quran), or kept it hidden in your super hidden knowledge, that make quran pleasure of my heart, light of my chest and source to remove my sorrow and trouble. Sahaba asked that should we memorize this dua? Prophet ﷺ said, he who listen/read this, should memorize it, because he who neglect this is surely in great loss.

 

حضرت عبد اللہ بن مسعودؓ سے روایت ہے کہ اللہ کے رسول (صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وآلہ وَسَلَّمَ) نے ارشاد فرمایا : جس کسی کو کوئی فکر یا غم لاحق ہو اور وہ اس دعا کو پڑھ لے تو اللہ تعالی اس کی فکر کو دور کردے گا اور غم کو خوشی میں بدل دے گا 

[ وہ دعا یہ ہے ]
 

اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي عَبْدُكَ وَابْنُ عَبْدِكَ وَابْنُ أَمَتِكَ نَاصِيَتِي بِيَدِكَ مَاضٍ فِيَّ حُكْمُكَ عَدْلٌ فِيَّ قَضَاؤُكَ أَسْأَلُكَ بِكُلِّ اسْمٍ هُوَ لَكَ سَمَّيْتَ بِهِ نَفْسَكَ أَوْ عَلَّمْتَهُ أَحَدًا مِنْ خَلْقِكَ أَوْ أَنْزَلْتَهُ فِي كِتَابِكَ أَوْ اسْتَأْثَرْتَ بِهِ فِي عِلْمِ الْغَيْبِ عِنْدَكَ أَنْ تَجْعَلَ الْقُرْآنَ رَبِيعَ قَلْبِي وَنُورَ صَدْرِي وَجِلَاءَ حُزْنِي وَذَهَابَ هَمِّي إِلَّا أَذْهَبَ اللَّهُ هَمَّهُ وَحُزْنَهُ وَأَبْدَلَهُ مَكَانَهُ فَرَجًا،قَالَ فَقِيلَ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ أَلَا نَتَعَلَّمُهَا فَقَالَ بَلَى يَنْبَغِي لِمَنْ سَمِعَهَا أَنْ يَتَعَلَّمَهَا

Translation in Urdu:

اے اللہ میں تیرا بندہ ہوں ، تیرے بندے کا بیٹا ہوں ، تیری بندی کا بیٹا ہوں ، میری پیشانی تیرے ہاتھ ہے ، میرے بارے میں تیرا حکم نافذ ہے اور میرے بارے تیرا فیصلہ عین عدل ہے اے اللہ میں تیرے ہر اس نام کے وسیلہ سے مانگتا ہوں جس سے تو نے اپنے آپ کو موسوم کیا ہے ، یا اپنی کسی مخلوق کو سکھایا ہے ، یا اپنی کتاب میں نازل کیا ہے ، یا اپنے خاص علم غیب میں اسے مخفی رکھا ہے کہ آپ قرآن کریم کو میرے دلوں کی بہار بنادیں ، میرے سینے کا نور بنادیں ، میرے سے غم کو ہٹانے والا بنادیں اور میری فکر کو دور کرنے والا بنادیں ، یہ سن کر صحابہ اکرام نے آپ (صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وآلہ وَسَلَّمَ) سے سوال کیا : اے اللہ کے رسول (صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وآلہ وَسَلَّمَ) ! تو کیا اسے ہم سیکھ نہ لیں ؟ آپ (صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وآلہ وَسَلَّمَ) نے فرمایا "جو شخص بھی اسے سنے اسے چاہئے کہ اسے سیکھ لے ) کیونکہ وہ شخص بڑے دھوکہ میں ہے جو اس سے غفلت برتے

[ Musnad Ahmed, 1/381 ]  

Neighbour Rights in Islam - He is not a believer whose neighbour is not safe

Neighbour Rights in Islam - He is not a believer whose neighbour is not safe

Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) said that;

He is not a believer whose neighbour is not safe from his annoyance.

Penalty For Wearing Perfume Amongst Public (For Women)

The Prophet Sallallahu Alaihe Wasallam has stated,

If a woman was to apply perfume to herself, then leave her home and wander past people who were to catch her fragrance, she would be sinful of adultery and she would also be sinful of adultery for every glance she received.

(Ahmad, Nasai and Al-Haakim:Abu Moosa Al-Ashari)

Fasting On The Day Of Arafah (9th Day of Dhulhijjah)

REVIVE A SUNNAH "FASTING ON THE DAY OF 'ARAFAH" 

It was narrated from Abu Qataadah (radiyAllaahu 'anhu) that the Messenger of Allaah (SallAllaahu 'alayhi wa sallam) was asked about fasting on the day of ‘Arafah and he (SallAllaahu 'alayhi wa sallam) said:

“It expiates for the sins of the previous year and of the coming year.” 

 [Narrated by Muslim (1162]

 

Great Opportunity is knocking on 25th October 2012. InshaAllah, would be the 9th day of Dhulhijjah, which is the Day of Arafah. Don't miss it! Do Fasting! Grab the Opportunity and Get Fabulous Reward, InshaAllah!

Fasting on the day of ‘Arafah is a confirmed Sunnah for those who are not performing Hajj.

Whenever A Man is Alone With A Woman

Hazrat Umar (R.A) related that the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said, “Not one of you should meet a woman alone unless she is accompanied by a relative (mahram).”

The Prophet also reportedly said, “Whenever a man is alone with a woman, Satan is the third among them.” When young people are getting to know each other, being alone together is a temptation toward wrongdoing.

At all times, Muslims should follow the commands of the Qur’an (24:30-31) to “lower their gaze and guard their modesty….”

Islam recognizes that we are human and are given to human weakness, so this rule provides safeguards for our own sake.

What Are the Rights of the Way (Sitting on the Roads) ?

The Prophet PBUH said, "Beware! Avoid sitting on the roads (ways)."

The people said, "There is no way out of it as these are our sitting places where we have talks."

The Prophet PBUH said , "If you must sit there, then observe the rights of the way."

They asked, "What are the rights of the way?"

The Prophet PBUH said, "They are the lowering of your gazes (on seeing what is illegal to look at), refraining from harming people, returning greetings, advocating good and forbidding evil."

[Bukhari, Vol 3, B 43, Number 645: Narrated Abu Said Al-Khudri]

One of the Major Sins is to Abuse Your Parents

Hazrat Abdullah Bin Umar (R.A) Narrates That The Holy Prophet (P.B.U.H) Said;

One of the major sins is to abuse your parents. A Companion Asked How Can A Person Abuse His Parents. The Holy Prophet (P.B.U.H) replied. "If He Abuses Someones Father, That Person Abuse Back at His Father. And If He Abuses at Someones Mother ,That Person will Abuse Back His Mother".

(Bukhari & Muslim)

When a Muslim or a Believer Washes His Face (Wudu)

Reported by Abu Hurairah (R.A): The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) said, "When a Muslim or a believer washes his face (in the course of Wudu'), every sin he has committed with his eyes is washed away from his face along with water, or with the last drop of water; when he washes his hands, every sin they wrought is erased from his hands with the water, or with the last drop of water; and when he washes his feet, every sin towards which his feet walked is washed away with water, or with the last drop of water, with the result that he comes out cleansed of all sins".

[Muslim]

Man's Feet Will Not Move on The Day of Resurrection

Hazrat Abu Barzah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said,

"Man's feet will not move on the Day of Resurrection before he is asked about his life, how did he consume it - His knowledge, what did he do with it - His wealth, how did he earn it and how did he dispose of it, and about his body, how did he wear it out.''

[At-Tirmidhi Hadith # 2417]

He Who Observes Fasts in the month of Ramadan and Six Days in the Month of Shawwal

Hazrat Abu Ayyub (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: The Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said, "He who observes As-Saum (the fasts) in the month of Ramadan, and also observes As-Saum for six days in the month of Shawwal, it is as if he has observed As-Saum for the whole year."


[Muslim Book 06, Chapter 36, Hadith # 2614]

Eid-ul-Fitr and Eat Dates in Odd Number

Hazrat Anas bin Malik (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: The Messenger of Allah (PBUH) never proceeded (for the prayer) on the Day of Eid-ul-Fitr unless he had eaten some dates.

Hazrat Anas (May Allah be pleased with him) also narrated: The Prophet (PBUH) used to eat odd number of dates.

[Al-Bukhari Volume 2, Book 15, Number 73]

When a Man Dies, His Deeds Come to an End, Except for Three

Abu Hurairah (RA) reported: The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) said, "When a man dies, his deeds come to an end, except for three:

A continuous charity, knowledge by which people derive benefit, pious son who prays for him".

[Muslim]

Laylatul Qadr - Five Things to do on Laylat-ul-Qadr

Five things to do on Laylatul Qadr

1. Recite the Qur’an abundantly
2. Strive to gain forgiveness
3. Do much Superogatory Prayers (Nafil)
4. Increase in Dhikr (Rememberance of Allah)
5. Make much dua

Dua for Laylatul Qadr:

Hazrat Aisha (Ra) said: “I asked the Messenger of Allah (Sallallahu Alaihi Wa Sallam): 'O Messenger of Allah, if I know what night is the night of Qadr, what should I say during it?' He said: 'Say: O Allah, You are pardoning and You love to pardon, so pardon me.'

 "Allahumma innaka 'afuwwun tuhibbul 'afwa fa'fu 'annee" (Ahmad, Ibn Majah, and Tirmidhi).

اللھم انک عفوآ تحب العفوا فاعف عنی

اے اللہ! تو بہت معاف کرنے والا ہے، معاف کرنا تجھے پسند ہے، پس تو مجھے معاف فرما دے

Everything Has a Heart, and the Heart of the Quran is Yasin

Anas ibn Malik {May Allah be pleased with him} narrated that the Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said: “Everything has a heart, and the heart of the Qur’an is Yasin. Allah records anyone who recites Yasin as having recited the Qur’an ten times.”


{Sunan at-Tirmidhi, Sunan ad-Darimi}

When it is a Friday, the angels stand at the gate of the Masjid

The Prophet P.B.U.H said, "When it is a Friday, the angels stand at the gate of the Masjid and keep on writing the names of the persons coming to the Masjid in succession according to their arrivals.

"The example of the one who enters the Masjid in the earliest hour is that of one offering a camel (in sacrifice).

The one coming next is like one offering a cow and then a ram and then a chicken and then an egg respectively.

When the Imam comes out (for Jumua prayer) they (i.e. angels) fold their papers and listen to the Khutba."